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Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Talk about Democracy.


Almost a month after the rules governing the Speaker's Corner are laxed since September 1 - with speakers being able to hold talks without registering with the police, a 24-hour flexibilty, the circle being opened to permanent residents, and being able to touch on sensitive issues such as race and religion allowed - why is it that the participation level at the Speaker's Corner is so low? Or rather, lower than I expected, to say the least.


The root is easily found: Singaporeans are too obedient.


Blame it on our education and culture. We have been brought up in a stimulated culture and a certain way of upbringing that tells us "No, don't do this, because it is not right.", or "Stop! You must do this." Since young, we have been nurtured to do all the "right" things. And by "right", the definition stems from the government who monitors the society with a tool called Legislation.



Yes, rules and regulations are essential in maintaining peace and stability in the country - and Singapore government have done a fine job at that. Look at our growing economy, budget surpluses and peaceful society. I am glad to be living in Singapore.


However, if our education system, being ranked one of the best in the world, actually serves to promote foundational knowledge and life skills like competition being evident in every corner of the classroom, but yet stifle our boldness, creativity and critical thinking, is it all that beneficial?


I had an extremely engaging conversation with my friend. We spoke about Singapore's policies and what changes are encouraged to stratigically position Singapore to grab a bigger global pie. Believe me, this is the most interesting conversation I've had so far.



Q: So, what do u think needed to be changed in the current Singapore system?


A: The government needs to downsize (on its degree of control) as there is too much intervention.

We subscribe to effing corporatism. This nation is run like a large company. (My friend added that this is the reason why there is less bona fide belonging observed in Singapore).


Q: So, if you were President, what is the first thing you would do - be it policy implementation or changes in the reform?

A: Education is the first thing I would address. A good deal of what society develops to become stems from the quality of education. The reason why our society is so rigid in thought and low on passion is because of the way we were taught in school.


She continued to talk about how she taught in schools.

Her class rules:

"Iin my class, you may swear, wear whatever you please, style your hair in such a way that it takes attention away from your faces, challenge my ideas, and be yourselves completely. Just don't touch me."

You may not agree with everything entirely, but this method has proved to close the generational gap between teachers and students. Many of the students actually regard my friend as their friend, a person to seek for advices. And this is what we want to achieve - definitely not through scolding.

Countless times I have asked people to tell me one teacher that has inspired them, and I always find myself staring into a blank face. Their answer? A flat "none" - without a hint of hesitation. How many teachers truly inspire?


Then its a whole different story when I talk to my overseas pal. They enjoy school, they enjoy life, they are creative, and most importantly, they DARE to speak up.

Singapore has been encouraging entrepreneuship in our country to continue our economic growth and to have an edge over the global economy. My advise: Revise the curriculum.

Yes, they have recognised the importance of education. The government have put in place measures such as eradicating barriers of entry for Small-medium Enterprises (SMEs) and making bank loans easier, as well as organising competitions at school levels pertaining to entreprenuership. I remember going through the excitment of setting up my own business from scratch. But sad to say, it is different in the real world. And I do not wish to say this, but Singaporean students are acutely aware of this fact.

Ultimately, the best way is to change the way we are taught, inculcate more lessons outside of classrooms. There is so much more than can be done.

Food for thought!

Note: All confidentiality of any names is observed.

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The Media shapes the society in ways more than you ever imagined.

Define "sexy".

The intricate nuances of boy-girl sexual attraction has long been present since the day Adam set his eyes on Eve. However, have you ever thought, what is it in Eve that appeared pleasent to Adam? What is "pleasant"?

As the sex-y battle unfolds, you will find yourself tangled in a tug-of-war over the debacle: Is this Sexy or not? The media has been an integral part of our lives; whethere you like it or not. It has a strong influence on our ideology, behaviour and actions that served to mould the society into what it is today.

The mere notion of characterizing people as "weird" or "sexy" - the definition of these words is ultimately media-crafted. Ever thought your own definition of the words you use?

The use of words are accepted without resistence as the norm of society. Let's take a look at some fine examples:

When ladies wear tight skinny jeans, they are considered "hot" and earns many stares from goggling men and envious women. But when men wear tight jeans, they will earn stares, sure, but mostly from people who either classify them as gay or think they are "gross", as many of my friends plainly put it.

When ladies adorn themselves with earrings and accessories, they earn praises from fellow friends or colleagues saying they look "pretty" and "gorgeous". However, when men decorate themselves with earrings with holes unimaginably big and chains hanging down from their neck, there are divided opinions. Some innocent teens will think they look "cool". Others just think they "act cool"- and along with that remark comes the sentiment of disgust.

When ladies wear spaghetti strips and mini skirts, the men will literally drool as their eyes are loving the feast. When men wear sleeveless top with short pants, again comes divided opinions - one of preferance that guys put on proper shirts, or one that accepts them for their own taste. Someone once told me, "If that guy is muscular, I don't mind. But if that guy is fat and short, it'll look so ugly. He'd be better off putting on a shirt with sleeves."

How about women who go bikini waxing? They are often deemed as acceptable and thought as girls who care about their own appearance and body. Fabulous. But how about men going for bikini waxing? Ever wondered why some guys look great while sun tanning? It's no I'm-born-like-that theory. They take care of themselves, just like girls do. However, why does the same action by men earn scrunched up faces and disgusted looks from people who hear of it? My friend once asked me what I thought of him if he went for waxing. I told him that the decision ultimately lies with him, but it would definitely be an experience. These people know how the world thinks of them, but they just want to experience it out of curiosity. Is that wrong?


Essentially, the light under which we see people and attach them to a character largely boils down to an individual's ideology. The reason why people can relate to the same term used is due to a similar media influence that results in a homogenious society.

But what if, just what if, we redefine beauty and the characteristics it embodies?

Today, learn to look at everything in a different angle - and be prepared for your world to be turned topsy-turvy!

Before you comment, look inside the person - Real Beauty is found from within.

Redefine "sexy".

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